I look into his big, sparklingly mischievous eyes while he “is hurting” my doll. There are other dolls and toys lying on the floor, a whole bunch of them have already lost this fight. I know this is healing. His strong, inner and very natural strength - aggression breaks free. I'm not afraid of it. Part of him is getting back the lost control. It is safe. Let it out. Between a relaxed play and laughter, I ask him, "How is it when someone hits [...]